The Keys to Trustability

Oct 3, 2023 | Fred Toke, Lifestyle

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Trustability, the cornerstone of strong relationships and personal growth, is built upon the convergence of three essential elements: Habits, Humility, and Honesty.

#1 Habits: The Foundation of Trustability

Habits are the actions and routines that shape our daily lives.

#2 Humility: The Bridge of Understanding

Humility is the virtue that allows us to approach life with an open mind and a willingness to learn from others.

#3 Honesty: The Pillar of Integrity

Fred Toke Venn Diagram on TrustabilityHonesty is the pillar upon which Trustability stands tall. When these three qualities overlap in a Venn diagram, they form a powerful synergy that unlocks the keys to becoming a trustworthy and respected individual.

#i Habits + Humility = Responsibility

Habits and Humility, when combined, give rise to a sense of Responsibility. Responsible individuals recognize that their habits can have far-reaching consequences and are willing to be humble, make amends, and be accountable for the outcomes.

#ii Habits + Honesty = Authenticity

The intersection of Positive Habits and Honesty brings Authenticity to our actions and character. By embracing Honesty, we shed pretenses and masks, revealing our true selves to the world. This Authenticity builds trust and fosters genuine connections with others.

#iii Honesty + Humility = Integrity

When Honesty and Humility converge, they give birth to Integrity. Honesty demands truthfulness and transparency, while Humility urges us to acknowledge our imperfections. Together, they form a powerful bond that guides us to act with Integrity in all aspects of life.

Embracing this harmonious triad enables us to become trustworthy individuals, fostering meaningful connections and positively impacting the world.

“People are less likely to see you as a threat if they know they can trust you.” ― Germany Kent

“When someone trusts you, gift them your trustworthiness.” ― Drishti Bablani

One who is faithful in very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in very little is also dishonest in much.”  ― Luke 16:10.

But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No. For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.” ― Matthew 5:37

Fred Tokè aka Dr. Tokèmon

Fred Tokė aka Dr. Tokėmon is a Clinical Psychologist by training, was a former adjunct professor at Nanyang Technological University. He is also a guest lecturer at the University Malaysia Sabah’s Faculty of Medicine. Besides teaching, he also provides clinical psychotherapy services to the downtrodden and the discouraged.

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