The A-G Guide to an Empowered Life

Mar 25, 2025 | Fred Toke, Lifestyle

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Life has thrown its fair share of curveballs my way — moments when things felt uncertain, overwhelming, or even out of control. Yet through it all, I’ve found that embracing these seven principles has been truly helpful:



A: Accept Reality with Grace

I’ve learned that I can’t control people or circumstances — but I can control my response. Choosing dignity and composure brings peace.

B: Build Unwavering Self-Confidence

There will be times we will doubt ourselves, but trusting God and believing in my potential have kept me moving forward.

C: Cultivate Meaningful Dialogue

I’ve realized that honest conversations — even with those who disagree — can build bridges instead of walls.

D: Demonstrate Decisive Leadership

I’ve discovered that waiting for perfection often paralyzes progress. Bold steps, even imperfect ones, are key.

E: Embrace the Unknown

Some of my greatest blessings came from unexpected places and people — reminding me to stay open.

F: Forget the Baggage

Our pasts are life lessons, not life sentences. I’ve made mistakes, faced disappointments, or endured hurt — but those experiences don’t define me.

G: Give it to God

In chaotic seasons, I’ve seen God turn messes into masterpieces.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”  — 1 Peter 5:7

Fred Toké
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Fred Tokė, aka Dr. Tokėmon, is a Clinical Psychologist by training and was a former adjunct professor at Nanyang Technological University. He is also a guest lecturer at the University of Malaysia Sabah’s Faculty of Medicine. Besides teaching, he also provides clinical psychotherapy services to the downtrodden and the discouraged.

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